It is frustrating to consistently desire a better place than where you currently are but every time you try to move from where you are to your desired place, there is this struggle or lack of motion.
Have you seen a car that got stucked in a ditch and the driver is trying to move the car away from the ditch with all his driving techniques but despite all efforts channelled towards moving the car, there seems to be no result.
I know how it feels to be full of desires and not one of them has come to pass in fact people who you are more talented and intelligent than has moved to a better place, most times you wonder if God even loves you in the first place.
There are people who have given up and refuse to move again because they do not see any need to try something that is not working.
Others now see comfort in not moving and they use the statement at least I can manage. Such statement is meant for losers and people who do not have hunger to move from where they are to their desired place.
There are many reasons why many people are not moving from where they are to where they desire to be.
The first reason is FEAR. Fear has done more harm than good to a lot of people who are desire to move to a better place in life.
The fear of what people will say, the fear of failure, fear of making mistakes and so many other reasons which time will not permit me to talk about.
For the purpose of this article, I will be sharing with you two major principles on how you can move from where you are to where you desire to be.
TAKING RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR PROGRESS
In my journey so fa in becoming a person of influence and achieving my goals to move into my desired place, I found out that motion is not achieved by accident but by taking responsibility.
Motion here means moving in the direction of your dreams, goals and plans. You can’t arrive at your desired place when discipline, action mentality and taking responsibility for your progress is missing.
No one should blame others for not moving to their desired place. You are where you are because of your choices and you are not moving to your desired place because of responsibility is missing in the equation.
Great men did not arrive their desired place overnight, it took them sacrifice and making progress their responsibility. If you leave your life to chance then forget moving to your desired place.
GET A COACH
Now I am not going to tell you all the motivational talk behind you need a coach rather I will give youone major reason why you should get a coach after reading this post and not wait till tomorrow.
Where you are trying to move to is a place where someone is either in or has already passed to other places. What this means is that, your desired place is someone’s achievement so instead of struggling to get to that desired place, why not get that person who is already there and pay him or her to teach you how to get their without struggles.
Why should I pay someone to teach me when I can do it myself?
For how many years you have being trying to do it yourself and no result in fact you gave up and now hope is no longer in your heart to try again.
Instead of doing and error, why not look for that perso who knows how to take you from where you are to where you want to be.
Everything is your choice. If you want to move from where you are then use the bridge called COACHING but if you want to continue in your frustration then use the forest called MAKING MISTAKES TILL IT IS TOO LATE TO FIND OUT YOU WASTED TIME, ENERGY AND RESOURCES.
I rather pay a coach to reduce my journey of making mistakes than make all the mistakes many years later I then start to regret the time wasted.
Choose this day which you prefer
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P:S A truck stucked in a mud and can not move
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